The Holidays With One Less Parent

Happy Holidays!!! This time of year is my absolute favorite! I hope everyone is enjoying their time with family and friends. This blog post is geared towards those who have lost a parent and are having a hard time enjoying this holiday season. (I highly suggest not reading this post if your parent is battling cancer at the moment.)

So, last Christmas I was actually out of the country for my father’s funeral services making this Christmas our first without him. My mom and I also moved houses about a year ago (more information about this move will be in another blog post), so this Christmas is also our first one in this house. It’s so weird to celebrate my favorite holiday without my dad and in a new house that has yet to feel like ‘home’ to me.

 

The holidays without your parent are incredibly hard. I know the situation is atrocious — everyone around you is jolly and loving this holiday season and all you can think about is how much you miss your deceased parent. I know it’s hard to put something so traumatic behind you during a time when you’re ‘supposed’ to be cheerful, but I suggest you try your best to. You deserve happiness and you deserve to enjoy this holiday season with the rest of your family. I also highly recommend to start a new tradition in honor of your parent. For example, this year onwards I will be going to local hospitals to drop off some goodies for the hospital staff and some patients because to me Christmas is actually about giving, rather than receiving materialistic gifts. My other tradition that I have already started is making little cancer ribbon ornaments with my dad’s initials painted on the side of them! I made a few for our tree and a few for my extended families’ trees.

The traumatizing event of losing your parent never gets easier to cope with, especially during the holiday season, but still try to enjoy it and treasure the time with the rest of your family. Go ahead and start a new tradition in honor of your parent! Merry Christmas!

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Happy Giving Tuesday!

Happy Giving Tuesday!! Giving Tuesday is a worldwide philanthropic movement to push for donations after a materialistic weekend with Black Friday and Cyber Monday. This year I am supporting Camp Kesem! For those of you who don’t know what Camp Kesem is, it is a nonprofit organization run by student leaders supporting children through and beyond their parent’s cancer.

I Kesem because I understand what these kids are going through. I take full pride in the family that I come from and can never stop thanking the people who have supported me through the toughest time of my life, but unfortunately a lot of these kids who attend Camp Kesem as a camper cannot say the same thing.Happy Giving Tuesday!

It is my personal goal to help change these kids lives,  but I need your help! Camp Kesem raises over $90,000 to send these amazing and deserving kids to camp! It’s Giving Tuesday so give something back to your community today by donating here: https://campkesem.givebig.org/c/CK13/a/campkesem-ucdavis/p/SamiraAgarwal/