Sometimes when I wake up in the morning I feel like laying in bed all day and just looking at pictures of my dad and crying. And sometimes during the day I feel like crawling into bed and doing the exact same thing.
Here are just a few things that get me through the day:
1. Knowing my dad is watching over me- I know that whatever I’m doing is making my dad happy. He wouldn’t want me to completely stop my life and sit home and sulk. As much as I would like to do that, it’s important for me to grieve in a healthy way.
2. Connecting my dad to every part of my day- I love celebrating my dad’s life and bragging to everyone on how cool and loveable he was. If I was in a conversation with someone I feel comfortable with, there’s a high chance I’ll bring up my dad and an amazing memory to go with the conversation. Talking about him with the right people makes me feel better, but not all teenagers are comfortable with that.
3. Doing it all for my dad- In my eyes, everything I do I do it for my dad. He’s my motivation in life. From the smallest goals to the largest tasks, I see my dad at the end of every destination.
Take everything step by step and day by day. Appreciate the little things in life. And of course, always keep your family as your number one priority.